Wednesday, August 17, 2011

Salam Ramadan

Sedar sedar dah 17 Ramadan...dari 1st ramadan , nak buat posting to wish all the readers "salam ramadan"...so here I am selamat berramadan semua...Seriously, year in year out setiap kali muncul ramadan...dalam hati kita cakap...tahun ni nak tarawih...ada buat tapi boleh bilang dgn jari ajer....then dalam hati ada jugak cakap ...nak baca quran...well ada lagi 12 hari so we'll see....
semua yg baik baik semua dalam hati ...nak mengzahirkan tu susahnya...
I always pray for Allah guidance to lead me to his path...but on the other hand I know.."Tuhan tidak akan merubah nasib sesuatu kaum melainkan mereka sendiri yg merubahnya"...Allah is always transparent...Dia beritahu beforehand....
Basically we can rate ourselves kan....and it makes me scared...

Selasa lepas, mother of my neighbour passed away...orang lorong belakang..so we went to ziarah...I am glad I did...sebab it knocks me on my head that that person could have been me...could be someone we love...are we up to it? Takut kan ? Sangat menginsafkan...sepanjang kat rumah tu , tengok the family, kita tahan air mata aje...kite pulak mmg drama sikit bab air mata ni...

Dalam pada tu some neighbours ni sempat bercerita the difference between woman and man after the death of their spouse. They said rata rata lelaki akan sebok cari penganti be it lelaki muda ke tua. I just listened and giggled..To date I have never came accross anybody who has same view like mine, not among people that I know but we dont really talk about life after death , do we....seriously, I dont mind at all..if i die first, I dont mind if my dear hubby wants to marry another...among other thing , I dont think we'll bring "jealousy" to alam barzakh. Doesnt mean that i love my hubby less than those who said they will haunt the new wife...but I just being realistic....we have much more to handle THERE than worry about what we left in THIS world. If only we need to concern, it has to be well being of the kids cause I dnot think anybody can love others like they love their own kids!

So that's all for tonite...again salam ramadhan to all.....

1 comment:

Ejin said...

siap highlight in red yang tak tahan tu ...hehehehe ... tak tau nak komen ngko punya view - but i agree, jealousy tak akan dibawa ke alam seterus nya :-)