Wednesday, May 26, 2010

Sharing

I read this in Yahoo today --"Answers to toughest questions".... so they called it.

Am so glad to have it shared with all of you here :)

The Question:Can spenders and savers stay married?
The Answer :Sure -- and they won't run out of things to talk about either. Disagreements over money are a leading cause of divorce, so experts advise lots of work around this issue if, financially speaking, you've found yourself married to your opposite. Tip: Always talk in terms of "ours" instead of "mine" or "yours," and work your strengths. The saver should be allowed to draft the budget; the spender gets to be in charge of vacations, celebrations and ordering extra toppings on the pizza.

sure i am glad right?????ha..ha..ha..
Saver is good jangan kedekut sudah ................may Allah bless me!


The Question: Does money really buy happiness?
The Answer: No. Because happiness isn't for sale. Many people get tripped up by this one, amassing wealth only to find themselves cycling into a bottomless pit of unsatisfiable yearning. Turns out, joy and misery are not that far apart when it comes to very big wads of cash. Consider the case of a Kentucky couple who won $34 million in 2000. They divorced, he died of an alcohol-related illness, and she died alone in her new house just five years after cashing the winning ticket. When it comes to happiness, only people you love, and who love you, can bring it. If you have enough dough to buy yourself a luxurious yacht, but no real friends to sail with, you're sunk.

This is another good one , but I believe money without denial helps to certain extend to make people happy--the ability to spend, giving and sharing. My dear told me, people need to have vision and dream and at the same time strive for them.....even once upon a time, my ex boss (En Mokh) told me--""Liz, some may achieve certain level faster and some a little later but most of us will go through same phases in live at 20s, 30s and so on...." ..so all we need is to have dream and work for it...Bro fend cakap angan2 salam untuk mengapai impian!

I always share this philosophy with young couples, just stop complaining about not having this and that--as long as you guys stick together with well defined dreams insyallah you will earn it at certain age. If we opt to leave the current life and start a new one which seem to be more luxurious, you never know what's in store fated for you anyway!

We are down to concept bersyukur once again................this definitely brings loads of happiness:)

I end this with ..."HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO FID..still 30 something...muda lah tu belum 40 wahahahahahaha...tak de hal punya yg penting voque voque voque...Jom ramai ramai nyanyi lagu VOQUE by Ms Madonna"

4 comments:

fendifid said...

Ayoo...I'm too young to discuss subject macam ni la kak long. Too heavy rasanya. Tak sesuai with my age yang muda beli ni. GGG

Nevertheless, No matter what the experts said ... there are always exceptions. Do not go for Hasty Generalisation.

Just hope that no matter how important the Vitamin "M" to us. We are always be able to think rational most of the time and control our desire at best.

Most importantly...kalau korang kaya...share dengan adik beradik blog ni sekali. wajib tu.

Liz Duan said...

Deep ke?? Mana nya semua pun tahu ni cuma reminder ajer!

Ejin said...

sharing is caring gitu ...and completely, 100% agree ngan fend punya last statement ....share ngan adik beradik yea :-)

fido said...

wow! shld have read tis piece of valuabe tots on my big B day ysterdy!! Nicely written beb! Yup- we shld all be grareful for apa yg kiter ada skrg! Loving fmly, close frens & anak2 yg comel.....

Alhamdullilah....